It's ok to change. Give yourself permission to recognize you did your best with what you knew at the time and then focus your attention on who you WANT to be NEXT. Let yourself off the hook for being stubborn in your old thoughts, your old ways of thinking, grow... learn... None of us is the same person we were when we were 6, but no one expects us to be. None of us are the same person we were 10 years ago, with age comes WISDOM. None of us are the same as we were last year, with EXPERIENCE comes growth. Choice = Experience = Change = Growth. So, choose a new experience! It doesn't matter if your life is great or if your life is terrible, CHOOSE a new thought and get ready for a new EXPERIENCE and watch CHANGE and GROWTH happen.